The Benefits of Being a Servant Leader: Empowering Others Through Grace and Humility

The Benefits of Being a Servant Leader

Being a servant leader isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most rewarding paths you can take. A little while ago, I was teaching a leadership cohort, and one of the Managers asked in regards to a sticky situation, “Why do I need to be the mature one?” My response was simple: “Because someone has to.”

Fast forward to today, and I reflect on the incredible women I am connecting with across North America. These women are in every sphere of life—leaders, influencers, and changemakers. They hold positions as politicians, CEOs, executive directors, small business owners, community leaders, and yes, even single moms.

These women have voices, and they are a deep well for good. Many of them share the belief that we can "be better," a belief often rooted in faith. This shared belief fosters safety, security, and growth, allowing others to thrive.

A Servant Leader’s Power: Rising Above Challenges

One thing that stands out about these women is their unwavering commitment to service. They go about their work, making real change, all while putting aside fear, accusation, and bitterness. They know that leadership cannot be led by negative emotions—it’s about action, service, and conviction.

I woke up one morning, sipping my freshly poured coffee, wondering—how is it that women can create such meaning for themselves by serving others? How can they walk through fire, making “stuff” happen despite the hardships?

That’s the true meaning of life, isn’t it? We all have moments where we must walk through challenges to reach the other side, with more grace than before. Yes, it’s painful sometimes, and at times it may feel like we’re being seared. But despite the difficulty, you keep going. And eventually, you learn to be grateful for those flames.

Living by Example: A Servant Leader’s Greatest Lesson

Being a servant leader means not just accepting challenges but doing so with humility and grace. It’s about putting your own feelings aside and focusing on helping others find their voice. You empower others, even if it means stepping into uncomfortable situations or leaning into areas others avoid. Why? Because at your core, you have a servant’s heart.

I met a remarkable woman recently who exemplifies servant leadership. Highly regarded in her field, influential, and making real change—she’s in a position that involves life-and-death decisions and a significant impact on thousands. She could’ve retired and enjoyed a peaceful life, but instead, she rolled up her sleeves to take on a public role with even more responsibility.

Despite the criticisms and opposition she faced, she carries on with poise and grace, giving little thought to herself. She continues to lead, inspiring others along the way. It’s been truly inspiring to see her in action.

What’s Your Leadership Story?

Can you relate to her story? Maybe you’re navigating conflicts with people who have different opinions or ideals. It can be intimidating and fraught with worry, but what if we stopped avoiding conflict and faced it head-on? What if angry words bounced off us like a simple, casual remark and we could engage in real, meaningful conversations?

The benefit of servant leadership lies in recognizing your own insufficiencies and being humble enough to help others with theirs. Sometimes people act out of fear, insecurity, or brokenness. As a servant leader, you have the power to be the change. You can stand for what is faithful, true, and good.

Rising Above Conflict: Standing in Confidence

By standing against conflict, you are not only rising above the negativity—you are creating a space where everyone can thrive. Sometimes, all it takes is offering practical, effective tools to help others. Serving others means making these tools accessible, whether it’s leadership advice, emotional support, or just a listening ear.

Being a servant leader doesn’t mean ignoring your needs—it means putting others’ needs before yours at times and doing it with compassion and grace. It means making a choice to rise above and lead by example.

And most importantly, you must remember this: Someone has to lead, and that someone is you.